What a woman want from a man
by chidi obasi
Often times, men have gotten it all wrong in terms of pleasing a woman or wanting to please a woman. It is quite unfortunate that what most men do is to pant over unsolved puzzle but forget to solve the simple arithmetic. To tell you the honest truth, SEX is not the KEY to pleasing a woman. Do you want to please a woman? it could be your spouse or partner, all you got is to take these steps;
Most times, women want you read their heart, see through it and proffer solutions. They may not want to mention it because some of them as well feel shy to say it or wanting you to show or bring the man in you. Make provisions for her in your life (time, money and materials).
Express the care, send the affection and you will buy her off. In all these add little flavour of romance to it so you catch them quick like the butterflies.
SINCERITY – Not all women want sincerity of heart. You may wonder why I’m saying this. Yes! It is the truth. Out of 100% of woman in the world, maybe 70% ain’t in for genuine love likewise men. But below 30% there are women who want sincerity from every man they are dating. They want to know every bit of time they are spending with you. In fact any woman that is in LOVE will want her guy or hubby to be truthful to her at all time. Even the HIT and RUN folks in most of their activities still need sincerity. So, it is important, a must for that matter if you want to stay long in a relationship.
PAMPER – Every woman want her man to pamper her. Both old and young want that but does the MAN want to? Well, if you ask me, it is called, NATURE. It is in the nature of a woman to be handled with care so, why not try it. She will love it when you show it to her.
But I must warn, do not OVER-PAMPER her.
GOOD SEX – Yes, That’s want every one wants to know. To tell you the truth, SEX is sweet, horny and pleasurable but it is not done the way it should be done.
Well, lets leave this for another day but read this; The Aspect of Lovemaking in a Relationship
What woman want in a man continues. In my last note I stated most of what she really needs from a man which cuts across;
Care and Affection
And today I will state few other requirement she needs from a man.
Before I dive into sex, I have to state important one amongst them which is,
SECURITY; Women pleasure security most times, they don’t hate insecurity. Any man who can not protect a woman shouldn’t be called MAN.
If you can not protect your spouse or partner when needed then be prepare to lose her to another man. He wants who will stand by her should any harassment, abusive or molestation comes. When you stand out to protect her then you become her hero. Try it an see how it works.
SEX: Yes, sex! It is a three letter word small but powerful. This three letter word has built a home, relationship, community and at the same time destroyed them. If sex is performed in an appropriate way, pursue with good intention then it becomes pleasurable and built unending intimacy.
You may argue it that every man born by a woman needs sex, want sex in every 24 hours. Yes, it is the truth. The hormones, though it differ but always react when a woman, especially a good and attractive woman is around. Have you been around or with a woman that is not your wife or partner yet your chemistry reacts? Don’t be shy to say YES, because it does happen. But been a man is for you to control and switch off the hormone.
Men like sex likewise women. So, how do you know when a woman want sex? How do you know how long she wants it and how she wants it.
Women need sex but men woman it. Let’s talk another “What type of sex a woman needs”